Help me read this..is HE USING me or what?

Guys at that age really do care about =P but he may also like your company! It doesn't really matter if he wants to be ual when he's around you...it all depends on what YOU want out of him. If you aren't comfortable being friends with benefits (which is totally ok!) then suggest doing a 'friend' activity - outside of the bedroom. If you are ok with it, then keep on having fun! Some people get along physically, while other people get along emotionally. Theres nothing wrong with that right? =)