I don't even know... :(?

for me it was pretty much the same but then i just got more confident, sometimes i even fake being bold, i just ask my friends do you guys wanna go see a movie, or we should have a girls night, and then sometimes i even say i'm gonna miss you guys when we go to college, now we have a road trip planned, try to break your out of your shell but to a certain point that feels right to you , that's what i do and if i feel like i'm going over board i just take a break, and your not selfish by worrying others with your problems, my friends depend on me and i depend on them, you guys could help ea. other through a bad day, sometimes i joke that my friend is really loud and i like to be quieter so she talks quieter after i point it out, you don't have to be mean, pt. out flaws in a nice way