Why do women get offended?

we get offended becasue as our husband we dont expect a response that we would get from a coworker or random guy off the street. Of course she knows she has gained weight, thats why shes asking...YOU are suposed to love us unconditionally..and what most men dont understand is that if you still act as if your wife is hot and y...it will motivate her MORE to be hot and y...if you tell her she is fat...she will get depresed mopey and eat more. Instead of answering yes to a question like that say no..but then a few days later suggest you guys go running after work or say you both need to eat a bit healthier.